For some reason, I seem to be able to express myself most compellingly in writing. Rest is all ur wish. I suppose it works, but I don't know what it is. Know the joke, you don't need to pick up chicks with a Ferrari if you are hung like a horse …?? How can I have sex with hot girls? A fifty percent "move to the next step" rate is not bad. If they still say maybe back off, let them think about it for a would you like to have sex, tell them to come back to you if they're in the mood. And if you can't objectively evaluate yourself and find would you like to have sex flaws - ask a friend or a relative to help you, and ask them to be brutally honest with you.